A Women's Influence

Because my Studio 5 segment this week is on female influence, I’ve been thinking a good deal about it. Beautifully, I remembered this lovely book called A Walk on the Beach by Joan Anderson. It’s the true story of an unexpected friendship between Joan and Joan Erikson (the wife of pioneer psychoanalyst Erik Erikson) when they meet at Cape Cod.
This particular passage stood out to me, one on sharing their writing desires for the day.
“We’ll each work through the morning,” she said all eager with great intention, “and then share what we’ve accomplished over lunch, remaining loose and free, dear, enjoying the freshness of each other’s ideas. I’m so thrilled to have someone in my daily life with whom I can expand.”
To me, that is the essence of female friendship: a person with whom we can expand! Especially lately, I’ve considered how many spiritually sound, society-helping, family-nurturing, joy-spreading women I know. And even more importantly, that I have the blessing and opportunity to connect with and learn from. Their wisdom and strength infuses me. When I’m struggling or feeling empty, they fill me, quite naturally, because it’s who they are and what they do.
Consider the most important women in your life: how do they influence you? What have they taught you? Who have you become because of them?
I think of a dear friend I’ve known for almost 30 years. It dawned me on the other day: even in college, I have not known a SINGLE day to go by without her serving someone (typically two or three). Another friend finds the positive in EVERYTHING in life, making me realize just how good things are no matter what. I think of Miss Hatch, my sixth grade teacher who made me feel invincible but with responsibility; who asked me to help grade papers, and share her favorite Oreos. She knew without knowing that I needed that confidence boost. Her love and guidance helped me become a leader, a writer, and a teacher too.
From pioneer stock to modern-day wonders, I receive a connection and uplift from good-to-the-core women. Thank you for being you. And today, I encourage you to thank a woman of influence in your own life.
Best,
Connie
 
 

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